How Men Can Create Deeper Intimacy with Just 5 Date Questions

Men, taking your significant other on a date is an important action to help build continued connection and closeness. Feeling connected and close can create deeper intimacy in all parts of a relationship. An additional way to facilitate that process is intentional, thoughtful, and authentic conversation. 

Sometimes, the challenging part can be where to start. Below are 5 date questions that can help you start meaningful conversation with your significant other, leading to shared connection, closeness, and deeper intimacy. 

What’s something small I’ve done lately that has made you feel loved?

This can bring insight into the small things that you’re already doing, and that don’t seem like much, but are actually making a huge impact in your relationship. 

What’s something you wish I understood better about you right now?

This lets your partner know that you’re curious about where they’re at right now, and how you can show up better for them. 

What’s a goal or dream you currently have and how can I support you in that?

This communicates that you deeply care not only about your future as a couple, but what their individual aspirations are. 

What’s a memory of us that still makes you smile every time you think about it?

Reflecting on past special moments and experiences reminds you both of all the good that is in your relationship. 

This last one is not a question…but a challenge for you. 

What is something you can share about the current chapter you are in that feels a little vulnerable?

This lets your significant other know that you feel safe with them as you let them into the deeper parts of yourself.

Written by: Dr. Austin Shugart, LPC